In April this year, Meilun International officially launched the "Meilun Mentor System", which assigns a "customized" tutor for each Meilun student, leading and guiding students' healthy growth, career planning and active pursuit from the aspects of thought, feelings and taste. In the important stage of growth, tutors will guide the growth of students, make personalized guidance in improving personality, exercising physique, developing interests, cultivating children's good habits, etc., and communicate with parents in a timely manner, and work together with parents for the personalized growth of children.
The all-staff mentor system is an important carrier for establishing and improving the guardian network of students' physical and mental health, and in practical work, tutors will inevitably face various difficulties and doubts. In order to better implement the "Meilun mentor system", promote communication between teachers and students, and create a mentorship atmosphere that is also a teacher and a friend, on the afternoon of May 5, Meilun International held a mentorship training meeting, inviting Xu Liang, a national psychological counselor and doctor of psychology, to teach communication skills and other courses, and the lecture was "empowered" by "theory + practice" for tutors.
How to identify and enlighten students who are showing depressive symptoms? How to deal with multiple relationships with students? How can counselors de-stress themselves? At the beginning of the lecture, the teachers threw questions to Dr. Xu. Dr. Xu first solved the problem and clarified the need to pay attention to skills and clarify the purpose of the conversation when communicating. He told everyone about the effective methods and skills of teacher-student interviews, including preparing for the interview, recording the minutes of each conversation, paying attention to gaze and body language during the conversation, and maintaining stable emotions, etc., which eliminated the worries and confusion of teachers. In addition to the basic concepts and skills, the training also arranged practical exercises for teachers to practice and apply what they have learned.
Subsequently, Dr. Xu shared the theory and application of focused short-term treatment. In intimate relationship counseling, the focus technique is known as the preferred counseling method with its rapid results, which is a short-term psychotherapy technique centered on finding solutions to problems, and is a set of positive, action-oriented psychotherapy. Dr. Xu will elaborate on the basic concepts and techniques of focused short-term therapy, as well as the specific application in teacher-student relationship counseling, and arrange practical exercises on site for teachers to practice and apply what they have learned.
It is understood that the composition of Meilun's tutor team includes not only class teachers and subject teachers, but also principals, directors of various administrative departments, and administrative teachers, all of whom have good educational backgrounds and rich work experience at home and abroad. Each tutor leads 3-6 students, providing students with more personalized guidance such as "monthly tutor interview" and "tutor student file". It can be described as "personalized" guidance and guidance.
Carefully design training courses to help tutors grow, and promote the in-depth development of "Meilun Mentor System" to become an important part of the work of all instructors. This training helps teachers master skills, adjust their mentality, encourage and support tutors to better play their roles, become a good bridge for teacher-student communication, and devote themselves to education and teaching with positive and healthy psychology.
