当代高中生大多都是“互联网原住民”,无论学生还是家长每天的“屏幕时间”也都大幅增加,父母子女之间欠缺有效沟通,亲子关系不及以前,那么该如何去改善亲子关系,营造良好家庭氛围,让孩子可以更健康成长呢?
11月29日,美伦国际教育联合深圳市慈航纳生慈善基金会在学校体育馆举行"携手心连心 与爱共成长"青少年素质教育亲子公益活动。活动吸引了近80组家庭参与,众多学生、家长、老师牺牲周末休息时间、放下其他事务全程参与这场沉浸式亲子体验活动。活动通过“爱之无形束缚”、“1分钟现场交朋友”、“嘉许感恩蓝丝带”、“理想拼图”等一个个小项目让学生和家长重新认识自己、审视亲子关系、学会感恩和分享、学会更好地走向未来追逐梦想。
亲子活动从早上7:30开始,一直到下午6:10结束,活动内容十分丰富。早上签到的时候学生、家长、老师便被安排穿上不同颜色的服装,家长和孩子手牵手走过红地毯步行进场。在体育馆内,所有参与者在志愿者的指引下舞动身体,放松身心。梁瑞娟校长在活动正式开始前发表讲话,呼吁所有参与者积极体验,在活动中感悟,在活动中提升。
慈航纳生慈善基金会张俊生老师指导参与者们逐一进行各项活动:在“爱之无形束缚”环节让大家认识到孩子成长过程中“无形捆绑”的来源、严重性和解决之道;在“1分钟现场交朋友”环节让大家转变态度,在有限时间内尽可能多地交朋友、突破自我;在“理想拼图”环节让大家明白在解决问题的时候要学会与人合作、寻求帮助,要学会分享,学会平衡索取与付出;在“亲子面对面”环节让学生感受到岁月对父母容颜的改变,感悟父母对自己的爱与付出……亲情、爱意、微笑、感恩、鼓励、信任、希望、梦想,一份份正能量贯穿在一个个大大小小的体验式活动中。
这是一场关于爱与成长的心灵旅程,一段别开生面的真实体验,活动最后每一位学生、家长和老师都有不同程度的感悟和收获。吴同学的妈妈发圈表示,这一次精彩的活动让她感受到孩子真的长大了、也学会感恩了,对于自己忙于工作少了陪伴孩子感到有愧。刘同学也表示张老师的热情演讲和同学们的积极配合给他接下来的国际高中生活指明道路:学习路上既要靠自己自强不息、努力前行,也要学会与周围的人合作和友好相处,学会尊重朋友、尊重父母、尊重老师,有更多的帮助可以走得更远。邓老师表示,本次活动是一场解决了家长和年轻教师对于教育的困惑,取得了良好的效果。在活动结束的时候,沙卫副校长总结陈词,表示通过一场精彩的、有意义的亲子活动,提升学生、父母、老师相互之间的新认识和关系,必将有利于彼此日后的沟通和交流,让亲子关系、家校关系不断提升,最终形成合力帮助孩子成就美好人生。
MIC Parent-Child Charity Activity
On November 29, MIC and Shenzhen Cihang Nasheng Charitable Foundation held a parent-child charity event in the school gymnasium, attracted nearly 80 groups of families to participate in. The activity was led by tutor Mr. Zhang. Through activities, students and parents can re-recognize themselves, strengthen the relation between parents and children , learn to be grateful and share, and learn to better pursue their dreams in the future.
This is a spiritual journey about love and growth, a truly unique experience. At the end of the event, every student, parent and teacher has different perception and gains.
Mother Wu said that this wonderful event made her feel that her children have really grown up and learned to be grateful. She felt guilty for being busy with work and not accompanying her children.
Student Liu also said that Mr. Zhang's enthusiastic speech and the active cooperation of his classmates pointed out the way for him to continue his school life: learning to rely on self-improvement and hard work, but also learn to cooperate and get along well with people around him. Learn to respect friends, parents and teachers.
Teacher Deng said that this event was a solution to the puzzle of parents and young teachers about education and has achieved good results.
At the end of the activity, Vice President ShaWei summarized that through a wonderful and meaningful event to enhance the new understanding and relationship among students, parents and teachers, it will be conducive to their future communication, so that the parent-child relationship, family-school relationship will continue to improve, and finally form a joint force to help children achieve a better life.